Kids and Bullies

Bullies come in all shapes and sizes. My 9 month old gets bullied by a one-year old. It's hard to tell if the bullying happens consciously or not... who can fathom what goes on in the mind of a one-year old??? Perhaps it is a way to get attention, maybe it's jealousy or maybe they think it's fun. But let's not focus too much on the bully here... that's playing to their their game. What's more important is how children respond to the bully, isn't it? Being a push-over is somewhat expected, especially, if the bully is someone new, or if the child has never been bullied before. It's a new experience and you don't really know how to respond. But if it's chronic, be prepared for some retaliation or at the least some resistance. If bullying goes on and the bullied child always gets the short end of the stick, parents step in!



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Griz's Family Activity Pick of the Month

The new California Academy of Science is opening this weekend and there is FREE admission on Saturday, Sept 27th, 2008. This is a great place to bring the family and you can't beat "free"! Looking at some of the pictures from the website, it should be amazing... I can't wait to check it out... if any of you do make it out, be sure to take pictures and share your experiences here!

Website: http://www.calacademy.org/events/openingweekend/

Baby's First Boyfriend/Girlfriend

You've probably heard it millions of times, when your child is playing with other children, the grown-ups say things like, "oh how, cute... they're like boyfriend and girlfriend"... or something to that extent. While it might sound fun and innocent, let's think about how those kind of comments can be negative. Not saying that this is always true, but young children that can actually understand what grown-ups are saying might suddenly feel embarrassed or maybe feel like you're making fun of them. This can lead to kids not willing to play with other kids of opposite gender for fear of being teased. So be careful of what you say in jest, especially when it can be harmful to a young child's social development or self-esteem.

New Parent? Here's some must have products

baby bjorn

great for little ones that don't know how to crawl or walk, you can carry them around and still use your hands for other things. also great for putting baby to sleep. saves your arms!

boppy

again, a great arm saver. while breast feeding or putting baby to sleep, you place this on your lap and gives your arms a rest. because you're sitting, you can also take a quick nap!

bundle me

for those cold days, transporting around in a stroller you'll want to keep baby warm. bundling baby in layers of clothes doesn't work well because they won't fit in the straps! Also, when you go indoors from the cold, baby isn't still wearing too many layers.

Baby Snacks

When a baby gets fussy, sometimes the perfect solution is a baby snack. There are plenty of snacks out there on the market, but I like asian snacks the best. Not to biased or anything, I just think that the ones that I find in your regular supermarket tend to be hard and chewy. making it difficult for little babies to eat. So the ones I particulary like are the Japanese kind that are shaped like a long wafer or the chinese ones that are like little balls. both are rice based I think and "melt" in the baby's mouth so it doesn't require a lot of chewing and prevents choking. I think they taste better too because I've actually had them! Look for it in your local asian market ;)

Doing Art with Kids

Children love art, it let's them explore, use their imagination, and be creative. Doing art is also a great way for kids to express themselves. Introduce kids to art early, and remember it has nothing to do with being talented. Art is fun and they should have fun doing it!

Fun at Studio Grow

Studio grow is this awesome place in Berkeley where you can take your kids to play. They have a huge space with lots of fun activities. My baby goes there all the time and it's great. She meets lots of other kids and has a blast. I think playtime is important for young children. It really helps them... well, grow!

Studio Grow: Visit their site http://www.studiogrow.com/

The Pacifier Delimma

like the picture above? I got it from http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3102/2653720666_e0d5f5bf5c.jpg

Pacifiers are a great tool to calm a fussy child, but at some point they have to stop using it... you can't use it forever! I mean, a kid that's in preschool and above should definitely not be using it, right? But you see it all the time. So what do you do? It becomes so habitual after a while. The answer I suggest is, stop them before it becomes a habit.

Does your baby sleep through the night?

It's the question parents get asked the most. It's also the questions parents ask the most of other parents! Wonder why? Because kids don't sleep through the night and parents always wonder why and when will they ever sleep through the night. Parents never get enough sleep because their baby wakes up at all hours of the night. It's crazy, I know.

Sippy Cups - Good or Bad?

Sippy cups are a great way to acquaint babies to drinking from a cup, but the one thing parents need to be super careful of is the materials that the cups are made from. As a general rule of thumb, plastics are not a good idea. Metal cups are better because they have less chemicals. The other thing is the mouthpiece for sippy cups. These are designed for the baby's mouth, but they are super difficult to keep clean. Make sure you wash these well because liquids like milk and such can clog them and bacteria can grow in there. Take the time to soak these parts and clean them well.

Being Famous and Being Pregnant

Being pregnant is really super hard, but being pregnant and being famous??? Wow, I really sympathize with Jessica Alba, being a hot hollywood actress like that. She must have soooooo many people trying to hound her, take pictures and such. She's probably stressed out. And what does that mean for the health of the baby? It can't be good. But I guess it could be worse.

Dirty Diapers!

It's every parent's worst fear... dirty diapers! They're smelly, dirty, and messy. Fortunately, modern technology has given us disposable diapers, but there are many choices when it comes to the diaper department. There are cloth diapers, for instance, and if wshing poop-stained diapers sounds terrible, don't fret, there are plenty of diaper services at your disposal (har har)... Even with diaper wipes, you've got scented, unscented, thick, ultra thick, etc. It's enough to drive a parent mad. Then what about diaper rash? Diaper rash creams are effective, but sometimes, just good old baby powder will help ease the irritation. You'll probably end up spending a lot of money on diaper products so choose wisely!

Water play!

Whether it's the bath tub or backyard swimming pools, kids like to play with water. If your child doesn't like water, it's okay too... If they freak out, it's just because they don't know what's going on, it's a new experience to them. There are a few ways you can help:

• demonstrate on yourself. splash water on yourself, or jump into the pool first and show them it's okay.


• splash small amounts on them to show them it's okay.


• mix in other things, like a toy or beach ball.

If you have any other cool suggestions, leave us a comment!

Play time!

Play time is a wonderful opportunity for your kids to learn. Take your kids out often, like to a playground, and let them play with other kids, get dirty, and get some fresh air. Some kids will naturally want to start playing with other kids. Other kids like to just watch how other kids play together. Either way, it's all good! Don't pressure kids to play especially if the playground or the playmates are new to them. Ease into it and let them explore!

Kids and animals

It's no secret, kids love animals. It's part of their natural curiosity. And hey, even grown-ups love animals too! If you have pets, you know what I'm talking about. But it's important to remember that animals are animals, they don't follow human rules no matter how well trained they are. So that means as a parent you need to keep an eye on them. Make sure if your pet interacts with your kids that you clean up afterwards. Wash hands frequently because you don't want any of those nasty germs. Also if your pets make a mess, make sure your kids know not to play with it. You know what I'm talking about ;)

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For further reading on this topic click these links.



Click here for more animal safety tipe for kids.


Safety tips for kids and pets.

A day at the Petting Zoo

The family that eats together...

Kids love to eat. Even though they might put up a fuss... it's all about how you go about it. Meal times are a great way for kids to learn about all kinds of things. You'll love seeing how your child learns and grows just by eating. So next time you set up breakfast for the kids, take some time to enjoy it. Don't just rush through it like it's a chore. The family that eats together stays together!


Click here for some ideas on healthy foods.